Question 1

Revenge,especially in the form of violence,seems to settle the score in the short run,but almost always provides justification for counter-revenge.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 2

Repairing a relationship so that reengagement,cooperation,and trust become possible after a transgression is what your book calls "reconciliation."

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 3

An effective apology includes making amends for the wrongdoing.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 4

Individuals are more likely to renegotiate a relationship through forgiveness when they know which of the following?

Accepted Answer

A)  There is essential agreement regarding the nature of the violation to the relationship.
B)  The other has acknowledged the hurt experienced.
C)  An apology for the hurt will be included.
D)  The other is willing to apologize for the offensive behavior.
E)  All of the answers are correct.F) A) and C)
G) C) and E)

Question 5

"If you think you are going to walk out on me,I'll make sure your parents know everything you did when we were living with them" is an example of what type of hurtful message?

Accepted Answer

A)  Desire
B)  Threat
C)  Advice
D)  Evaluation
E)  AccusationF) B) and D)
G) B) and C)

Question 6

Which of the following is not necessary for an effective apology?

Accepted Answer

A)  Acknowledgement of responsibility
B)  Awareness of harm resulting from one's actions
C)  Promises of not engaging in the offensive behavior again
D)  Expression of regret or remorse
E)  An expression of wrong-doingF) B) and E)
G) C) and E)

Question 7

When Lisa says to her husband,"You'd make a lousy father," she is communicating which type of hurtful message?

Accepted Answer

A)  Accusation
B)  Advice
C)  Evaluation
D)  Threat
E)  DesireF) A) and C)
G) D) and E)

Question 8

One effective way to offer forgiveness to another is to ask the person to meet a condition that is important to you.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 9

The text suggests that children who've been abused should try to forget about the events and memories so they can move on more easily.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 10

Which of the following is a characteristic of forgiveness?

Accepted Answer

A)  Dismissing or minimizing a situation
B)  Excusing the actions or behavior of the other
C)  Indifference about justice
D)  Acknowledging the truth about what has happened
E)  Punishing the transgressorF) All of the above
G) A) and E)

Question 11

Which of the following dimensions of interpersonal conflict is most relevant to the discussion of offering and accepting forgiveness?

Accepted Answer

A)  Expressed struggle
B)  Interdependence
C)  Incompatible goals
D)  Scarce resources
E)  Interference from the other in achieving goalsF) A) and B)
G) B) and E)

Question 12

According to the text,sometimes forgiveness is best approached as a decision in order to give a person something to "do."

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False  True

Question 13

Sarah has recently been robbed and is leery of leaving her apartment if unnecessary.According to Layton's forgiveness process,Sarah is in the midst of which of the following steps?

Accepted Answer

A)  Injured innocence
B)  Obsession
C)  Fear
D)  Transformation
E)  TranscendenceF) A) and D)
G) All of the above A

Question 14

Which of the following statements is true of the ancient Hawaiian practice known as Ho'oponopono?

Accepted Answer

A)  It states that the most effective form of apology requires some sort of accompanying justification.
B)  It reinforces the idea that expedient apologies are more effective than compelled apologies.
C)  It requires conflicting parties to apologize by making a ritual sacrifice of a valued possession.
D)  It recognizes that grievances are often tied together and that one layer of resentment underlies another.
E)  It believes that apologies should be strictly voluntary and that one should never be asked to make any form of restitution.F) A) and D)
G) A) and C)

Question 15

In the phase of "transcendence," a person is able to stop obsessing over images and messages from the past.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 16

The question "Am I willing to consider forgiveness as an option?" is most closely related to which of the following stages of forgiveness?

Accepted Answer

A)  Uncovering
B)  Work
C)  Decision
D)  Outcome
E)  All of the answers are correct.F) A) and E)
G) A) and B)

Question 17

A common misconception about forgiveness is that it excuses the behavior of the transgressor seeking forgiveness.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 18

Your book says that memories are essential to the forgiveness process since they may help you become less susceptible to repeated injury.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False  True

Question 19

Part of the process of forgiving someone is to face the anger you feel.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Question 20

Unlike giving forgiveness,receiving forgiveness is a simple task.

Accepted Answer

A) True 
 B)False

Exam 10: The Practice of Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Revenge,especially in the form of violence,seems to settle the score in the short run,but almost always provides justification for counter-revenge.

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Repairing a relationship so that reengagement,cooperation,and trust become possible after a transgression is what your book calls "reconciliation."

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An effective apology includes making amends for the wrongdoing.

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Individuals are more likely to renegotiate a relationship through forgiveness when they know which of the following?

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"If you think you are going to walk out on me,I'll make sure your parents know everything you did when we were living with them" is an example of what type of hurtful message?

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Which of the following is not necessary for an effective apology?

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When Lisa says to her husband,"You'd make a lousy father," she is communicating which type of hurtful message?

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One effective way to offer forgiveness to another is to ask the person to meet a condition that is important to you.

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The text suggests that children who've been abused should try to forget about the events and memories so they can move on more easily.

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Which of the following is a characteristic of forgiveness?

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Which of the following dimensions of interpersonal conflict is most relevant to the discussion of offering and accepting forgiveness?

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According to the text,sometimes forgiveness is best approached as a decision in order to give a person something to "do."

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Sarah has recently been robbed and is leery of leaving her apartment if unnecessary.According to Layton's forgiveness process,Sarah is in the midst of which of the following steps?

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Which of the following statements is true of the ancient Hawaiian practice known as Ho'oponopono?

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In the phase of "transcendence," a person is able to stop obsessing over images and messages from the past.

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The question "Am I willing to consider forgiveness as an option?" is most closely related to which of the following stages of forgiveness?

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A common misconception about forgiveness is that it excuses the behavior of the transgressor seeking forgiveness.

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Your book says that memories are essential to the forgiveness process since they may help you become less susceptible to repeated injury.

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Part of the process of forgiving someone is to face the anger you feel.

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Unlike giving forgiveness,receiving forgiveness is a simple task.

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